Tips to help Avoid Constant Issues with your Roommates

Theophilus Awotunde 

Living with roommates is like embarking on a joint venture, not just in uni but everywhere, even with your siblings at home. It is a collaborative cohabitation where personalities, habits, and quirks converge. While the experience can be delightful sometimes, conflicts and misunderstandings can scarcely be avoided. 

So, how do you strike the right chord and create a harmonious relationship with your 'roomie'? 

Here are some tips to ensure your peace game is a chart-topper.

Communication is Key: Open and honest communication is the cornerstone of any successful roommate relationship. Whether it's about chores, bills, or personal boundaries, make sure to keep the lines of communication wide open.

Establish Ground Rules: Sit down together and establish some ground rules early on. This could include guidelines for chores, quiet hours, having guests over, and boundaries of personal space. Having a mutual understanding from the start can prevent potential pitfalls down the line.

Respect Personal Space: Everyone needs their own sanctuary. Respect your roommate's personal space and belongings, and encourage them to do the same. Remember, a closed door often means "do not disturb".

Divide and Conquer Chores: Create a chore chart or a rotating schedule to divide household responsibilities fairly. This way, everyone knows their role and can contribute to maintaining a clean and organised living environment.

Be Mindful of Noise Levels: Whether you're studying, relaxing, or hosting a small gathering, be mindful of noise levels, especially during quiet hours. Respect your roommate's need for peace and a quiet space, and they'll likely return the favour.

Address Issues Promptly: If any issues or conflicts arise, address them promptly and constructively. Avoid letting resentment build up; instead, approach the situation with empathy and a willingness to find a mutually beneficial solution.

Be Considerate and Flexible: Flexibility and consideration go a long way in building a positive roommate relationship. Be willing to compromise, accommodate each other's schedules, and be mindful of each other's needs and preferences.

Create a Shared Space: Designate a communal area where you can bond over shared activities, whether it's cooking, movie nights, or just hanging out. A shared space can strengthen your bond and help you create lasting memories with your roommates.

Stay Connected but Independent: While it's important to connect and bond with your roommate, it's equally crucial to maintain your independence. Make time for yourself and pursue your own interests to ensure a balanced lifestyle.

Celebrate Small Wins Together: Show appreciation for each other's efforts, and don't forget to laugh together. After all, shared laughter is the best medicine for roommate blues.

When it comes to student life at OAU, living with roommates adds colour and essence to your university experience. So, embrace the journey, navigate the nuances, and remember, "One love, one house, but two roommates make it a home."